“There are only two mistakes one can make along the road to truth; not going all the way, and not starting.” ~Buddha

If you are struggling with an addiction of any kind, please seek professional help and do not hide away. Speak to those you love, trust, and respect. They will help you to find your way.

Here are a few other ideas that can help you when you are struggling:

1. The problem is a symptom of something else.

When you find yourself doing things you normally wouldn’t do, there is likely an underlying problem that you need to deal with. You must be prepared to acknowledge and deal with this underlying issue in order to get your life back on track.

2. You are never alone.

It doesn’t matter what the situation is. You must remember that there are many others out there who have been through what you are currently facing.

3. You can overcome.

Remind yourself that we all have challenges, and if you don’t give up you can overcome them and be a better, stronger person as a result.

4. People genuinely care about you.

Sometimes people will appear to be judgmental, but most are genuinely concerned about you and want to see you do well. Having those you love and trust around will help you heal faster.

5. You are good enough.

When you’re struggling, it’s easy to believe that you are not worthy. Your self-esteem and confidence will be tested more than any other time in your life. You need to believe in yourself and know that this struggle does not define you.

6. You are going to make mistakes.

No one is perfect, and that includes you. You will continue to make mistakes, but you are not your mistakes. Focus on the lesson and how you can apply this wisdom going forward.

7. No time is ever the perfect time.

You will not be able to make changes in your life if you do not make time. You have to make it the right time by taking the first step.

8. It never helps to shift blame.

It always seems to make us feel better if we blame others for our problems. Unfortunately, it is up to you and me to make our lives the way we want them to be. Your life is yours to live, and you are responsible for your happiness and success.

9. You must believe you can.

Once you have decided that you can, there are no forces in this world that can stop you. Every one of us has it within us to be happy, but few of us realize that it is up to us to make it happen.

10. You are stronger than you think.

We can never know our true strength until we allow ourselves to be tested. You are stronger than you give yourself credit for. Think about where you are now and some of the things you have overcome. It took lot of strength for you to get where you are.

We all have obstacles in our lives and we’ll have them as long as we live. Do not allow addiction, illness, disappointment, mistakes, or failures to prevent you from living your best life.

Using morning affirmations is one of the most efficient methods to get yourself ready for the day. Are there things about your life that you want to change? How many times have you crawled in bed after a long day and thought that tomorrow would be better?

Consider the many times that you’ve said you would start eating healthier or that you would not allow people to walk all over you anymore. There is a desire to make changes deep inside, and at times this urge is so strong you cannot go to sleep. Yet, things the next day don’t change much.

The problem is that you procrastinate. Nothing ever goes as you expect because you get caught up in the new day’s troubles and forget about all the goals you made. Why do you seem to postpone things you must do?

The truth is that you’re not mentally prepared to make any changes, and it’s stressful to adjust your life. You may be completely overwhelmed by the whole process, which is normal. The key is that you must be confident in your abilities, and the best way to build your confidence is by using morning affirmations.


Why do people procrastinate? The number one reason people put off things is that they are uncertain of what will happen next, and it’s scary. Sure, you would love to be your own boss and start a business, but all the thoughts of failures and the fear of the unknown weigh heavily on you.

Another thing that holds you back is rejection, which is why morning affirmations are so important. Why is rejection so hard to handle? Your mind will play clips of different scenarios until you have self-doubt and debate if the idea will be profitable.

Somewhere in your mind, you begin to contradict all the plans you made the night before. It isn’t easy to reprogram your subconscious mind to align with your conscious, but it must be done if you want to go forward.

Doubt always rears its head when you try anything new. Even though you are fully aware that rejection is not a life-threatening situation, the emotional turmoil that you will experience can be unbearable.


If you want to overcome all your doubts, you must reprogram your mind to be positive. It would help if you had confidence and faith in yourself and your abilities. Faith allows you to think about the future with optimism, and your confidence will give you the courage to do things you never thought possible.

You must reinforce your subconscious mind so that you can make changes, and the best way to boost this part of your brain is through morning affirmations.


Do you love yourself? Do you have faith that you can do what you need to accomplish? Are you ready to stand up in the face of opposition and make changes in your life? Here are 15-morning affirmations that you can use to retrain your brain.

1. Troubles let me showcase my assets.

2. I like change and effortlessly adjust to new circumstances.

3. Wonderful things are happening in my life.

4. Today will be spectacular, and I will accomplish all my goals.

5. I am independent, resourceful, and resilient.

6. I love me, and I’m enough.

7. I will overcome every hurdle in my life to fulfill my dreams.

8. I am dependable, reliable, and a hard worker.

9. I accomplish everything I put my mind too.

10. I am surrounded by people who love and support me.

11. I feel vigorous and resilient today.

12. I constantly see the good qualities in myself and others.

13. My history will not influence my future.

14. Fortune and success run to and through me.

15. I will thrive by attracting people who can help me grow.


The best way you can love yourself is by using morning affirmations. They will help you to start each day on the right foot and with the momentum you need. When you change the way you perceive life, then you can also change your actions.

Having confidence in your abilities doesn’t mean that you do not feel scared. Instead, it means that you are ready to face the challenge head-on. To create certainty, you must engage in things to build your esteem. The only thing that will help you to overcome your past failures is by having faith and persistence towards the things of the future.

Healthy Lifestyle was a hot topic before Covid 19 took over our lives. It is now a priority. In these swiftly changing and unusual times we need to stay healthy a while adapting to our new circumstances – home working is the new normal. How can we attend to our healthy living in such a context?

Five Ways to Healthy Lifestyle is an evidence-based model for wellbeing developed by the New Economics Foundation as part of their project to build wellbeing into the economy. When the five ways are exercised we are more likely to feel better in ourselves.

Stay Connected

You can’t connect without a suitable work space and tech. Try to find a corner at home to work and keep your stuff. This will lend itself to a feeling of “going to work”. A sensible worktop and screen arrangement are essential. At the very least you need a proper chair.

Physical isolation doesn’t mean social distance. Keep in touch with family, colleagues, friends regularly, text, DM, make every effort to attend online meetings. My business partners set up group to stay connected and socialised plus we host Zoom meetings. All my family use Facetime to keep in touch and Skype for relatives from abroad.

Stay Active

Leave the house every day and get some fresh air – the garden counts. This will also encourage you to get dressed (it really does help).

Have regular breaks, get up and move. It’s too easy to get lost in your screen. Maybe set your alarm and move every 20 minutes, pomodoro-style, or find a buddy and prompt each other to shift. Arrange an online break or commit to sending each other photographic evidence of your movement. Hanging out the washing counts.

Stay Work Focused

Be in control of your work and keep trek of it. Taking control of your working practice, be that organising your schedule or spotting something that can be improved and improving it, will cheer you up. Now is the time to innovate, find new ways of doing things and take back control. Anyone, who lost their jobs there is plenty online opportunities available. Do your research First!

Keep Learning

Well, we are all learning fast right now: immersing ourselves in the tech; embracing new ways of connecting; reconfiguring quality process and reshaping assessment. It’s challenging and rewarding in equal measure and will continue to be so as things just keep on changing.
I am personally learned a lot to shift myself to online world as I was looking for better future for my family and securing my retirement. I am grateful I jump into digital marketing industry four months ago to upskill mysell and provide financial security for my family.


This is where we warm our hearts. The past few weeks has seen an unprecedented display of generosity across whole country. People showing great support for NHS and other sectors key workers and this is just brilliant.

There’s nothing we can do about all the variables at play that impact mental health, but by exercising the Five Ways to Healthy Lifestyle in when working at home we are doing all we can to keep ourselves and our family, friends, business partners and work to the best of our ability.

At this difficult times I provide help to anyone, who is willing to learn digital marketing and shift to online world. Our team of business partners host Complimentary Live info session twice a week to learn more about digital world. Please book your seat at www.joycekyalo.org or for more info at info@joycekyalo.org

Stay safe…and wash your hands

Written by: Joyce Kyalo www.joycekyalo.org/


One simple yet effective way to enhance your immune system is to take certain supplements, and, while this does not guarantee protection against the pathogen, it will at least ensure the virus comes into contact with a robust defence system.

Vitamin C

Vitamin C is possibly the best thing you can consume if you’re looking to give your immune system a big boost.

“Vitamin C helps stimulate the production of white blood cells (also known as leukocytes).

These are cells from your immune system that help to fight infectious disease and foreign invaders.

It’s a vital vitamin needed for repairing and growing tissue; it helps heal wounds, maintain healthy bones and acts as an antioxidant, fighting free radicals that can weaken the immune system.”

To top it up, consume foods rich in the nutrient, such as oranges, kiwifruit, brussels sprouts and potatoes on a daily basis, she said.


“Zinc is an immunity superhero that is often overlooked when it comes to fighting colds,” explained Murphy.

Studies have shown that zinc may help to reduce the duration of colds by up to 50 percent.”

Zinc can be found in a number of supplements.

Vitamin E

Similarly to vitamin C, vitamin E acts as an antioxidant that assists in fighting off infection.

The vitamin can be found in numerous supplements and certain foods, such as almonds, peanuts, sunflower seeds and spinach.


Mushrooms have been touted as traditional medicine in Asia for thousands of years due to their well-known immune-boosting powers.

“As well as having antibacterial and antiviral properties, mushrooms also contain beta-glucans. Beta-glucans make up the mushroom cell walls and stimulate the immune system,” she said.

Vitamin D

Most people struggle to get enough vitamin D in the winter months, which is a problem for people’s immune systems as vitamin D stimulates the production of antimicrobial proteins, which the body relies on to fight off infection..

How to get enough vitamin D

Between October and early March people don't get enough vitamin D from sunlight so the vitamin can be found in supplements and a number of foods, including:


Iron is an essential mineral that helps to transport oxygen throughout the body that is fundamental to the growth of B cells and T cells that are a major cellular components of the adaptive immune response.

Consequently, low iron levels affect the body’s capacity to adequately protect the body from viruses, bacteria and other pathogens.

Simplify Your Life Week is observed during August of each year. This holiday encourages those who need to refocus their lives and declutter – that doesn’t just mean objects. The idea is to eliminate anything that causes stress or anxiety. Most of us have a tendency to clutter up our lives, both physically and psychologically.

We’re all familiar with the idea of spring cleaning, but some late-summer simplifying is a great way to keep the clutter to a minimum going into fall. But simplifying your life isn’t just about removing the physical clutter out of your life. It’s meant to make us look closer at our lifestyle, and eliminate the things that keep us from enjoying life.” ~Ideal Living website

There are many ways we can simplify our lives. Simplification at work involves saving energy and balancing projects to work more efficiently and prevent fatigue. Alternating between light and heavy tasks can help our body and mind stay focused throughout the day. Planning work projects helps things go more smoothly when approaching deadlines.

Simplifying our environments at home is always a good practice to have. The easiest way to do this is the scale down our lifestyle. Organizing through schedules often work for families who have a lot of activities outside the home. Schedules keep everyone on task and support a well-balanced home life. Families that follow schedules help children develop self-discipline later in life. While most of us probably struggle with too much social activity outside of work and home, we still have a problem with saying no. On occasion, we have people in our lives that cause stress. It can be tough to eliminate these people from your life, but it’s worth it in the end. Life is too short to be hampered by people who cause more problems than they are worth.

There are so many ways we can simplify our lives. Taking a break from social media is one activity that can help refine our life. By logging off once and a while, we allow ourselves to find other things to accomplish or get in that needed afternoon nap. We need to choose simplification that best suits our own needs. It’s important to remember we are all different and situations affect us uniquely. Once you find what works for you, stick with it.

Here’s how to simplify your life

Although a “simple life” might look a little different for you than for me, below are three underlying principles for simplifying that we recommend.

1. Start with mindfulness

The best starting point for making a change in your life is to notice. We live in a busy world with many demands on our time and energy. Technology, which has brought many incredible benefits to our lives, has made it increasingly difficult for us to disconnect from the outside world and simply be in the present moment.

Take a moment to practice mindfulness. No matter where you are – sitting, standing, or lounging – close your eyes and take a deep breath. Aaaahhhh. If you’re able, take a moment to stretch your body and remember what it feels like to be you. 

You may notice that your mind resists this pause, and resists lingering in the present moment. Our minds can get stuck in management mode, reminding us to remember this or do that. We’re so accustomed to doing that taking a moment to pause might be difficult! Which brings us back to the idea of simplifying your life:

Think of 2-3 adjectives to describe how it feels to be in your body and mind right now. Comfortable. Overwhelmed. Energized. Drained. Accept how you’re feeling with compassion, perhaps by saying, “I’m feeling anxious right now. And that’s okay.”

Now, think about how you would prefer to feel. Some who yearn for simplicity wish to feel more relaxed, present, or at ease. Do you long for these feelings or did something else entirely come to mind? It might help to think of a time when you felt as if life was simple and good and consider what was happening that contributed to those feelings. Were you on vacation? Were you in a great place in your work? Had you just decluttered space in your home or cancelled something on your schedule?

2. Make a personal inventory

Now that you have grounded yourself by being mindful of where you are in this place and in this moment, make a mental inventory of all of the moving parts in your life. You can make a list if you like, but you don’t have to! What do you feel responsible for? What are the activities or objects that fill your days? How many hats do you wear?

What you might discover is that you’re expecting a lot of yourself! You expect yourself to be on time, to respond to emails within an hour, to cook meals, to grocery shop, to tidy the home, to perform well at work, to keep the car repaired, to send birthday cards, to attend children’s activities, to exercise, to get rest, to spend time with your partner, to call your mother, to… Well, you get the idea!

Think back to a time you felt really good, and remember what contributed to how you felt. Can you bring more of that into your life somehow? You might notice that some of your lifestyle habits are in opposition to what you know makes you feel good! Now imagine your ideal world: what responsibilities would you let go that would make you feel relief, excitement, or gratitude? If a fairy godmother appeared in front of you and offered to take on some of your burdens, what would you give her first?

3. Practice gently saying no

Perhaps you can see where this is going  In order to simplify your life, you must say no sometimes! Many of us are people-pleasers by nature and feel uncomfortable refusing a request. In fact, many of us habitually take on responsibilities that were never requested because we think we “should.” Often this can be traced back to how we were raised.

Nevertheless, it’s your job as your keeper to let go of assumed responsibilities, and to say “no” to requests that don’t enhance your life. I once said “no” to a request to volunteer for an event in my religious community. The person making the request said, “Wow, I wish I could learn to do that!” By honoring what I knew was right for me, I modeled a behavior that I hope helped that person reflect on her commitments.

If saying “no” gently but firmly is a new experience for you, it will take time to get used to. That’s okay! It’s normal to feel awkward or vulnerable at first. If it helps, you can ask your spouse, friend, or coworker to be your accountability partner. You can even write sticky notes on your bathroom mirror! The important thing to remember is that a “yes” to someone else may very well mean a “no” to yourself.

Thankfully, there are many creative ways to say “no” to assumed responsibilities these days. For example, food subscription services can help if you struggle to get meals on the table. If it’s within your budget, consider hiring a cleaning service. Or for that matter, maybe it’s okay to clean less often!

Parents, consider saying “no” to some of your children’s requests. Many children are enrolled in back-to-back activities, requiring parents to shuttle them all over town. It sets a good example for your children (and helps your mental sanity!) to choose their activities carefully and to spend more unstructured time together at home.!

Debs Brookes Roots of Life
linkedin facebook pinterest youtube rss twitter instagram facebook-blank rss-blank linkedin-blank pinterest youtube twitter instagram